Wednesday, 28 April 2010

Kim Su Yeong and the Black Day Jjajang

Kim Su Yeong had a hesitant smile at our first meeting. Spontaneity had taken over by the time he sat sipping the black noodles across the table on the black day last 14th. He was cracking jokes and bursting into bouts of laughter in between the sips of soju of which he had already emptied a couple of bottles.

Su Yeong was not a student in the University. He hailed from a village far off and was working in a small single room firm in nearby downtown. By the end of the day, he would transform the same office room into his house. His ambition in life was to become an elementary school teacher and teach English to little children and he had been saving to realize his dream. It was for furthering his language skills that he used to come to the campus and tried to win over a few foreigner friends. But just prior to our meeting, he had fallen foul of the foreigner gang in the campus after he had asked an alien female if she would marry him.

Koreans have many days for the young and the young at heart to celebrate love. Interestingly the 14th of every month marks a love related day in Korea. Thus they have the Candle Day, the Valentine’s Day, the White Day, the Black Day, the Rose Day, the Kiss Day, the Silver Day, the Green Day, the Music Day, the Wine Day, the Movie Day and the Hug Day from January to December. As if that isn’t enough, they also have a Pepero Day, on November 11 when the young couples exchange Pepero cookies resembling the date 11/11.

The ladies have the first chance to express their love interest. So on Valentine’s Day, the ladies profess their love by giving chocolate and flowers to men. Men have their turn a month later on the white day when they can return non-chocolate candy to women.

The lonely souls aren’t left alone. On 14th of April falls the Black Day; when those who spent Valentine’s Day and White Day alone go out dressed in all black to eat the black noodles, JjaJangMyun (짜장면) and to mourn their lonely life. It is said that it had been created by those who felt left out on the Valentine’s Day and White Day festivities to console each other.

Although he had agreed to join me on the black day ‘blast’, Kim was not always alone. He boasted about having his chocolates and flowers from his girl friend, a student in the University.

She was from a poor farmer’s family. But she was pretty. He used to buy her the text books and even paid her fees once.

By now he had gulped down enough alcohol to derail his train of thoughts and out of the blue, came that quintessential question of male self doubt;

“Do you think, dear brother, that I am handsome?”

“Of course, yes”; I replied, “many a beautiful girl out there might be dying to date you”.

He wasn’t impressed and shrugged his shoulders as he cleared the next bottoms up.

As the day of her graduation neared she began to have second thoughts and on the day of her convocation she returned the books and bade adieu. She had bigger dreams and couldn’t reconcile herself to being the wife of a small town elementary school teacher.

It is better to be alone and not swallow the bitter pill of rejection.

He was still laughing as he finished his story; but the tone of his throat was unfailingly betraying him.

I patted him on the back and put a hand on his shoulder as he stood up, apologizing for spoiling my day.

And we had a hearty black day laugh over his final statement.

“Sorry brother, all brain alcohol…”

Saturday, 13 March 2010

I had joy, I had fun.........

It was last week that the Boss had suddenly decided that all his researchers should start their day at work after a half an hour session of jogging in the lawns. Yesterday I had also realized the importance of a checklist and decided to make one for myself in order to arrest the derailing of my own research program. It went as per the script save for the 11th hour and I was satisfied. The day being TGIF, I wanted to catch an extra hour of sleep and was humming an old melody as I opened my wardrobe in the change room.

The satisfactory day at office echoed through the streets on the walk home through short bursts of old favorites with no one around to faint or frown save for that ever smiling friend on the sky. The pitch was subdued by the time I stood in front of the house door and ......

And suddenly it dawned upon me....

.... the vital metal piece that will let me in to hit the showers and throw myself onto the mat......

It was missing! I had left it in my coat pocket…and I had not changed my coat!!

Tired… exhausted….and another hour of singing in the streets…..to fetch the key L

The city buses rush through the middle of the road to the comfort of their garages at that hour in the night, there was very little chance of a bus stopping for me …

but why not give it a try?

The bus came soon and stopped, for a passenger had to get down….another one remained and the driver was already asking her where she’s to get down and she muttered something without bothering to take her eye off the game she was playing on her hand phone.

English songs!….in a Korean bus!!

Kabhee Nahin!!!

But yes……it was NIRVANA singing ……definitely not for the driver and the lady gamer…..

We had joy, we had fun, we had seasons in the sun

But the hills that we climbed were just seasons out of time

We had joy, we had fun, and we had seasons in the sun

But the stars that we reached where just starfish on the beach

Back in the change room I was still singing along as I stood again in front of my wardrobe…and then...

And then suddenly I realized that I had not even checked my coat pocket back in front of the house!…..

what if it's indeed there inside my coat pocket?!

Fortunately for me, to my great relief!….. the key wasn’t there….. J

Back home, it was already the next day by the time I could hit the mat….singing;

I had joy I had fun…..I had sessions with the moon…..

Life is fun, not waste of time; when I laugh at my own self…

I had joy I had fun…..I had sessions with the moon…..

and the stars?!

And I had sent the stars on a laugh riot.

Tuesday, 16 February 2010

Remains of The Day

Blissfully unaware of the tragedy behind the Taj, the young waiter at the Korean coffee shop made the image for me on the coffee he had served

Tuesday, 19 January 2010

A Ride on the Ropes over the Rain Forests in Langkawi

Even as the '3 Idiots' was arriving in Malaysia,


I went on a ride on the ropeway over the rain forests in Langkawi with "3 Wise men".
Posting the videos here:



The best way to beat fear while hanging from a rope over the thick rain forests is to bury yourselves in arguments and discussions; at least that's what they seem to suggest

J

Wednesday, 16 December 2009

The Return of Sándor Kocsis!

Sándor Kocsis made an unexpected return to memory on a cold Friday evening this past fortnight; dragging it back by a couple of decades- to the eventful school days, to be precise. The name may not ring a bell even in the minds of diehard soccer aficionados of the day. Yet for one full fortnight 22 years ago, it had remained the most sought after for a gang of restless, information hungry school boys. Diego Maradona and the God were taking Mexico by storm. The reverberations of the Mexican wave they had triggered crossed the oceans and continents reaching even the remotest corners of the world. No wonder then that it had taken in the gang of star struck, soccer crazy kids just stepping into their teens.

They rarely got to watch a movie in a theater, never went to see soccer in the stadium nor did they get to see the live cricket action on TV. Yet they churned out screenplays by the dozen, of the movies they had never seen, gave ball by ball account of the cricket matches they had not been to, or eulogized the heroes in the wars they hadn’t witnessed; almost as if they were right at the hot seat seeing all the action by themselves. They impeccably recreated, through words and gestures, the sublime poetry of a “Rolls Royce” on his long rhythmic run to the wicket, or the supreme artistry in the execution of a Vishy square cut, or the meandering runs of a “Little Bird”, full of feints and shimmies leaving the best defenders infuriated or the “filthy” one-handed backhand from the magic wand of that “rebel with a cause” and of course his tantrums, each of which introduced the awe-struck audience to the art of genius in the field of action. As their imagination took wings, weaving the fascinating web of facts, fiction and fairy tales, the stars from different eras crossed swords, years before computer simulation actually allowed some of it, without people even noticing it. They were not liars, but great imaginers, adept at the art of weaving the web of tales, master story tellers and unfailing performers never short of an apt word or a suitable gesture at capturing the real thrill of the moment.

They had invented games too, to kill time at free hours. It was during one such game that Sándor Kocsis first descended in their midst. The word game they used to play around that WC season in ’86 required the contestants to give the name of a sportsperson starting with the first letter in the second name of the previously named star. When some one spelt out Slobodan Zivojinovic, a hush prevailed for a brief while. And then one of the contestants came up with the name Zandor Koksis. “Liar, liar” up went the alert crowd, very much aware of the gang’s ability to pluck names out of thin air. “There never was a sports man by that name”; the protests were vociferous and the pleas that there was a Hungarian soccer star by that name fell on deaf ears and was shouted down, al beit with a demand for evidence and a bet without the bookies.

Internet was not heard of, Google was not even an idea, yet they took it as a challenge and spent a whole day in the public library scrolling through the dusty back volumes of Sport Star and came up with the issue containing the mention of soccer star Sándor Kocsis. They had to give up their claim and lost a couple of sharpeners, yet they were greatly pleased to discover that he was no ordinary soccer player but a legend who had won the golden boot in ’54, scoring 11 goals, and the first player to score two hat tricks in a World Cup. He was the lesser known of the potent duo that formed the lethal striking force of the Mighty Magyars, arguably the most brilliant international team in soccer history.

Gradually he faded from memory, not figuring in any further stories, due part in the lack of awareness among the audience and part in the difficulty in pronouncing the name. He never came back, even in the innumerable quizzes or the discussions on greatness around soccer seasons, dominated by Pele, Pushkas, di Stefano, or Maradona. Nor did the name come up during the poignant moments of describing tragic heroes dominated by the Busby babes and Duncan Edwards1, Garrincha2 or George Best3. He was never praised alongside the prolific scorers like Pele, Mueller, Fontaine and Rolando. He was missing among the stars of yesteryears being felicitated at the subsequent editions of the world cup. He had vanished altogether from our soccer discussions which used to peak around WCs or the Euros.

Then suddenly, one day this past fortnight, he made a dramatic comeback through an article on the web, reviving fond memories of those old school day discussions. I turned curious and clicked away on the information, now available at my finger tips and discovered nearly 23 years from the game session during that unengaged Social Science period at school that Sándor Kocsis was indeed no ordinary soccer player, but a legend, in fact, statistically speaking, the most prolific striker the world has ever seen in the international game. He had scored 75 goals in 68 matches for Hungary at a phenomenal 1.103 goal/game, ahead of Gerd Mueller, the only other player with a goal a game average among players with a long international career. His partner and Captain Ferenc Puskás had kicked in 3rd in the list with 84 goals in 85 matches. He was also the most successful match winner among the international game’s greatest goal scorers, with an astounding 84.5% of his goals coming in winning causes, more than 4% clear off Pushkas, Pele, Ronaldo and Mueller. His record 2.2 goal/game in a single World Cup finals competition is still standing. Kocsis was also one of the earliest defectors from the communist block to the Western Europe when he moved to Spain where he represented FC Barcelona and he also finds mention in a poll ranking the greatest Barca players in history along side Cryuff, Ronaldinho, Maradona and Messi, in spite of having played for them way back in the 60’s. On his retirement as a player in 1966, he continued with the club as its coach. But his return to memory was through one list that we had missed out. The article was found on the sidelines on the report on a galaxy of German stars looking on as the coffin of colleague Robert Enke was being lowered to be near his two year old daughter’s. Those dusty back volumes in the Public Library didn’t tell us more than 2 decades ago that Sándor Kocsis also headed the list of soccer stars who had taken their own lives. His life and career had come to a standstill when he was diagnosed with leukemia and even as he was undergoing treatment, he was found to suffer from stomach cancer. And it was through the fourth floor window of the hospital in Barcelona where he was undergoing treatment that the Magnificent Magyar had disappeared on July 22 1979, aged 49.

Soccer, unlike Cricket, is not a statistician’s game. Sándor Kocsis, it is said, was a magnificent finisher, very strong, great at positioning and most of all brilliant in battles on air. Even as another WC season triggers debates, discussions and speculations; there is, it appears, no current soccer player who is anywhere near the Golden Head’s Bradmanesque strike rate. And on those terms, Sándor Peter Kocsis will continue to remain the greatest striker in the international game’s history for a long time to come.

1. “What time is the kick off against Wolves, Jimmy? I mustn't miss that match”

2. “who lived in the woods had bent legs who was totally unmarkable and who could dribble like the devil”

3. “Don't die like me”